Be your self when you are dating
To be yourself is the very first & most important
advice you would love to follow. You might have heard it before,
that the single most important piece
of advice you can follow when going on a date is
"to be yourself".
What does "Being Yourself" mean? It means not putting on any
behaviour which isn't you when you are dating. It means not
pretending to be something you are not. And let's be clear, it
certainly means don't try to show what is not part of your
personality.
If you want to form a good lasting relationship with someone,
then you are not going to make a start by telling them things
about yourself which aren't true. Tell them your real part and
also tell them how you are improving it. Most people when they
hear something untrue or realize it later, at least ask
themselves: 'Is this person being completely honest?' Others
will see the untruth, for what it is, right away. Either way you
would have created a bad impression. Remember "First Impression
is the last impression".
Honesty is the key to forming
lasting relationships. And this has to begin right from the word
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